Empowered, yet edited

At a recent social impact conference that I attended, a woman from a village in Gujarat took the stage to share her success story. She spoke in Gujarati, her native language, addressing an audience that mostly did not understand her language. To bridge this gap, an educated, articulate, and well-positioned man was tasked with translating her words into Hindi. What followed was not a simple act of linguistic mediation but a revealing demonstration of how women’s agency is often compromised, even in spaces that claim to celebrate their empowerment. The translator did not translate her speech faithfully, and instead, he offered a compressed interpretation, presenting what he believed to be the ‘gist.’ Sensing that her meaning was being altered, the woman interjected repeatedly, attempting to reclaim her narrative. This was not a one-off, and I have witnessed this often at several conferences and during multi-stakeholder field visits to villages.

This moment captures a broader and deep-rooted pattern. Translation is rarely a neutral act, and it is more like an exercise of power. The person who translates decides what matters, what can be omitted, and what should be softened or sharpened. When men translate for rural women who are less formally educated, speaking to urban or elite audiences, they often filter lived experience through institutional and patriarchal lenses. Emotion becomes excess, complexity becomes confusion, and struggle is smoothed into success. In the process, women’s narratives are made more palatable but less truthful. What the audience receives is not the woman’s voice, but a curated version shaped by male interpretation.

The woman’s interjections were particularly instructive. Her repeated attempts to stop the translator were efforts to assert control over her own story. A man interrupting to ‘clarify’ is viewed as confident and authoritative, while a woman interrupting to reclaim her meaning is seen as difficult or ungrateful. This double standard reflects a long-standing patriarchal belief that women are unreliable narrators of their own lives and that male mediation is both necessary and superior. The conference scene I described is simply a contemporary indicator of this enduring injustice.

There is also a fundamental difference between how women often choose to speak and how men often interpret. Women from marginalised contexts tend to narrate their lives through stories that are relational, nonlinear, and emotionally textured. They speak of collective effort, ongoing uncertainty, unpaid labour, and the fragility that coexists with success. Male interpreters, shaped by institutional norms, often prioritise outcomes, efficiency, and coherence. In translation, vulnerability is trimmed away, contradictions are resolved, and struggle is reframed as triumph. This is not a harmless simplification; rather, it is an injustice that strips women’s knowledge of its depth and political significance.

The quest for gender equity requires more than symbolic representation. It demands that women retain control over their narratives, including how they are translated and transmitted. This means valuing verbatim translation over interpretation, and creating spaces where speech is not rushed or sanitised. It also requires a cultural shift in how interruptions are understood. When a woman interrupts a translator, it should be recognised as an assertion of dignity and agency, not as a breach of decorum. Gender justice is not achieved by merely giving women a mic, but will only be achieved when their words are allowed to travel without being reshaped by male authority. Until then, even the most empowered women will remain vulnerable to having their voices lost—not in silence, but in translation.

Confessions of a Fundraiser

By a Head of Development, who has been there, done that. 

I have spent a good part of my career raising funds for livelihoods and entrepreneurship, environmental sustainability, and digital inclusion. These are kinds of work that everyone agrees are deeply important, and expects to be delivered at miraculous speed, near-zero overheads, and with measurable transformation visible by the next board meeting! Over the years, I have learned that in India’s funding universe, March is not just a month but a mood, where phone calls are returned with unprecedented urgency, proposals are rediscovered with fresh enthusiasm, and sustainability plans are requested even before the first grant tranche has cleared. I have learnt to speak fluently about empowerment while explaining, with equal conviction, why empowerment requires trainers, coordinators, field activities, local transport, and a field office. I have learnt that pilots can run for a decade and still be called pilots, that social impact is expected to be both transformative and inexpensive, and that the most common expression of donor admiration is, ‘This is excellent work. Can you replicate in two districts with 20% less budget?’ And yet, I have also learnt that when trust is built patiently, and partnerships are approached as shared responsibility rather than transactional funding, the system does work, unevenly, imperfectly, but often just in time.

If you ever want to test your emotional resilience, professional patience, and metaphysical belief in destiny, try becoming a fundraiser for social impact in India. Not as a hobby or a phase in life, but as a full-time, salaried, KPI-driven profession where your success is measured in crores raised, relationships sustained, and hopes renewed, often all before lunch. Fundraising in India is not a job; it is a personality type. It is a slow-burning spiritual practice. It is also, on some days, a contact sport.

Most fundraisers do not grow up dreaming of this life. No child has ever said, ‘When I grow up, I want to write concept notes, follow up politely seven times, and still be told the CSR budget has already been exhausted for this year.’ Fundraisers are usually people who joined the development sector with good intentions and then stayed because they discovered a rare combination of optimism, masochism, and an above-average tolerance for ambiguity. In India, fundraising also requires fluency in multiple dialects, not linguistic ones, but donor dialects. You must speak CSR, philanthropy, family office, multilateral, HNI, trust, and the particularly tricky language known as ‘let’s take this offline.’

Every fundraising journey begins with a proposal that is equal parts strategy and speculative fiction. A document that must be simultaneously visionary and realistic, innovative yet ‘scalable,’ rooted in community voice and at the same time aligned to the donor’s thematic priorities for the current financial year. The proposal must do many things at once: ‘Solve poverty + empower women + be sustainable by the third year + align with SDGs (preferably all of them) + cost exactly the amount the funder has available + have low overheads but world-class MEL.’ You will spend weeks refining language, perfecting logframes, and polishing budgets, only to be asked in the first meeting, ‘Can you explain this in two lines?’ You will smile, compress your knowledge of years of community work into a sentence, and remind yourself that clarity is a virtue, even when it hurts.

Sooner or later, every fundraiser in India faces the great philosophical question of our time: Why do you need staff to run a project? Recently, another question got added to my great list when a funder asked me, ‘Why do you need field offices to implement a community-based high-touch project?’ Mind you, I managed a straight-faced answer, without any smirk or sarcasm, even though I cursed the day I decided to be a fundraiser.

Admin costs are a suspicious category in the minds of Indian donors. They include dangerous items like salaries, rent, electricity, and internet, none of which, apparently, contribute to impact. As a fundraiser, you become adept at explaining that projects do not run on goodwill and sunlight alone. That field teams do not teleport. That data does not collect itself. You learn to say ‘lean but adequate,’ ‘efficient yet ethical,’ and ‘value for money’ with full sincerity. I have even attempted some humour at times on the negotiation tables, saying, ‘Without admin costs, the project will still exist, but just as an idea.’ Results vary post such statements.

What I have understood is that fundraising in India is less about money and more about relationships. Money is merely the by-product of trust built over years, conversations, coffees, conferences, and carefully worded WhatsApp messages. I have learnt that a ‘quick call’ can last an hour or more, a ‘small grant’ can require six levels of approvals and may take two years; silence doesn’t mean rejection (or acceptance); words from leadership are golden, but if you don’t have that in writing, you are screwed. The fundraiser’s greatest skill is not writing; it is patience. You patiently wait for responses, for board meetings, for the next quarter, for the funder who loved your work but is noncommittal. You wait with optimism, and dignified reminders, gentle ones every couple of weeks.

Then comes the project visit by the funder, usually by some of their board members and senior leadership. Often, they bring moments of high drama along with it. For the donor, it is a glimpse into our community-connect and implementation efficiency. For a fundraiser, it often turns into a logistical marathon involving vehicles, weather, community leaders, beneficiaries, translators, photographers, and a strong hope that nothing goes wrong. In all such visits, we fundraisers pray to some invisible power that the roads are navigable, community meetings start on time, funder’s visibility is primed, and no one asks an unplanned question about funding gaps. If all goes well, the funder says, ‘This is so impactful.’ You nod, beaming. You make a mental note to follow up in three days. At the beginning of my fundraising career in India two decades ago, I often ended up being shocked by the variety of demands by donor representatives visiting project sites. Thanks to the information age, the visiting representatives nowadays are well informed and often invested in social change.

Fundraisers also live at the intersection of data and dignity, translating lived experience into metrics without stripping it of meaning.Indian donors want data and stories, and at times, even at the cost of losing the bigger picture. You learn to convert human change into numbers without losing the soul of the work. You say things like, ‘4025 women trained’, and then you add, ‘Meet Sunita, who now earns independently and negotiates at home.’ You know that neither is sufficient alone, and the narrative together, they might just unlock the next tranche.

How can I forget the ultimate sword of big NO! Rejection is a constant companion of us fundraisers, like a dark shadow. Sometimes polite, sometimes vague, and sometimes dressed up as ‘great work, but not this year.’ You learn not to take it personally, mostly. You also learn that today’s rejection can be tomorrow’s opportunity, because India’s funding ecosystem is small, relational, and cyclical. The donor who said no last year may say yes next year, after changing jobs, priorities, or perspectives. So you keep the door open, always.

Fundraising is emotional labour. You hold hope for communities, for organisations, for teams whose salaries depend on your ability to convince someone that change is worth investing in. You are optimistic on behalf of others, even on days you feel tired. You absorb anxiety, translate urgency, and project confidence. You celebrate quietly when funds come through, and cushion disappointment when they don’t. You are expected to be resilient, persuasive, strategic, and endlessly positive. No one tells you this in job descriptions.

And yet, despite the follow-ups, the spreadsheets, the rejections, the ‘please reduce your budget by 15-20%,’ and often ending up becoming a football between the funder and the grantee management, we choose to stay. Because once in a while, a funder truly listens. Once in a while, a partnership feels equal. Once in a while, funding aligns perfectly with need, timing, and trust. And in those moments, you remember why fundraising matters. Because social impact does not scale on passion alone. It scales on resources, relationships, and people willing to ask again and again for something better.

So here’s to the fundraisers in India: The translators. The bridge-builders. The professional optimists. May your proposals be read, your follow-ups answered, and your impact always exceed your budgets. And may you never lose your sense of humour. Wishing you strong coffee, timely approvals, and generous funders, today and always.

May the force be with you! 

The invisible cost of GRAP 

Delhi slips into a public health emergency as air pollution reaches hazardous levels every winter. The government responds by invoking the most stringent measures under the Graded Response Action Plan (GRAP III and IV), suspending all construction and demolition activities, halting infrastructure projects, and restricting dust-generating work. These steps are necessary and justified for pollution control and the health of people. However, the cost of Delhi’s clean air policies is disproportionately borne by construction workers and daily wage labourers, whose livelihoods are abruptly and completely cut off.

Delhi has a massive daily wage construction labour force, estimated between 10-12 lakhs workers, with only around 5.4 lakhs officially registered (around 2.6 lakh active). Construction restrictions under GRAP III and IV are designed to curb particulate pollution, particularly PM10, a major contributor to Delhi’s smog. However, the construction sector is sustained almost entirely by informal labour. Migrant workers, hired through layers of contractors, work without written contracts, income security, or social protection. When work stops, wages stop instantly. There are no savings to fall back on, no paid leave, and often no local support systems. For these workers, a week-long (or longer) pollution shutdown can mean hunger, unpaid rent, mounting debt, or forced return to their native places under distress.

The injustice lies in the fact that these workers are not the architects of Delhi’s pollution crisis. Air pollution is the result of long-term structural failures, like unchecked urbanisation, rising private vehicle use, industrial emissions, poor public transport planning, weak enforcement of environmental norms, and regional factors like stubble burning. Construction workers operate within this system, responding to demand created by the city’s growth. Yet, when pollution peaks, their labour is the first to be criminalised, as if survival itself were an environmental offence.

The common defence of GRAP rests on a false dichotomy between public health and livelihoods. This framing assumes that income loss is a tolerable short-term sacrifice in the interest of long-term health. For daily wage labourers, livelihood and health are inseparable. Loss of income leads to undernutrition, stress, untreated illness, and increased vulnerability. Clean air achieved by pushing workers out of their wages is a policy failure and not a public health success. India’s environmental governance has consistently overlooked this social dimension. While regulations effectively restrict polluting activities, there is little institutional thought given to compensating those who lose income due to regulatory action. 

On 18th December 2025, the Delhi Government announced financial assistance of  INR 10,000 through Direct Benefit Transfer (DBT) to registered construction workers affected by the curbs under GRAP. While this is a welcome announcement by the Government, a clear policy solution is required in the long run for the provision of minimum wages to construction workers and daily wage labourers, both registered and unregistered, for the duration of GRAP shutdowns. This compensation should not be framed as charity or welfare, but as a rightful payment for income loss imposed by public policy in the interest of collective well-being. If the state mandates a halt to work for environmental reasons, it must also accept responsibility for the economic consequences of that mandate.

The most viable way to finance this support is through a dedicated ‘pollution tax.’ Delhi already collects various environment-linked charges, including green cess on vehicles, environmental compensation from polluting industries, and penalties for regulatory violations. These revenues can be consolidated into a Pollution Mitigation and Compensation Fund. Additional sources could include congestion charges in high-traffic zones, higher fees on large real estate developments, and stricter fines on construction firms that violate dust-control norms. Those who contribute most to pollution should bear the cost of its social mitigation.

Beyond immediate compensation, such a policy would also strengthen environmental compliance. When workers are protected from income loss, resistance to pollution-control measures will also decline. Environmental regulation will become a shared responsibility rather than an imposed punishment. Over time, this approach can build public trust in pollution governance, which is currently eroded by perceptions of unfairness and elite insulation from consequences.In the longer term, Delhi must move towards cleaner construction technologies, year-round dust control enforcement, better urban planning, and formalisation of labour. But these structural reforms will take time. Until then, compensating workers during pollution-induced shutdowns is a matter of basic justice. Environmental policy that ignores inequality risks becoming morally hollow and politically fragile. Clean air should be a shared achievement, not one built on empty stomachs and silent suffering.

First published at LinkedIn on 22nd December 2025

Fabric of Resilience in Assam

I witnessed women weaving change in the villages of Assam through their skills, cultural heritage, hard work, perseverance, and collective will. Standing in a courtyard in Kamrup district, watching a woman at her traditional loom, I was struck by how quietly revolutionary this simple, everyday act truly is. The rhythmic motion of her hands, the steady concentration on her face, and the vibrant threads stretching across the loom were far more than craft; they were a statement of agency, identity, and economic empowerment. In that moment, it became clear that weaving in Assam is not merely a livelihood. It is a living narrative of resilience and progress, written by women who have refused to be left behind.

In much of rural India, the conversation around women’s empowerment often centres on what needs to be ‘given’ to women: access, opportunities, rights, financial inclusion, and public safety. All of these are undeniably essential. Yet what struck me in Kamrup was how much women were already giving to their families, to their communities, and to the preservation of an age-old cultural tradition. Assam’s weaving heritage is legendary, and most rural households have a loom. The women I met weave not only exquisite textiles like Mekhela Chadors, Gamosas, stoles, saris, but also new pathways for themselves, stitch by stitch.

The woman in the photograph, Jonali Das, from Paschim Bagta village, sits on a traditional handloom, made using local materials, framed by a raw brick wall and a sandy earthen floor. Nothing in this setting reflects modern machinery or industrialized production. Yet it reflects something far more important: dignity in work and pride in cultural identity. Her loom is more than a tool; it is a symbol of continuity. Generations of Assamese women have learned to weave from their mothers and grandmothers. The craft is deeply entwined with rituals, festivals, and the wider cultural ethos of the region. In many communities, a girl’s weaving skill is a marker of her readiness for adulthood. It is a quiet but powerful form of cultural education.

But the picture also reveals another truth: despite the beauty and value of these textiles, most weavers earn very little. The informal nature of the craft, the lack of organized supply chains, exploitative middlemen, limited access to raw materials at fair prices, and the absence of direct market linkages keep them trapped in low-income cycles. The fact that such a skilled craftswoman is working in a semi-open shed with bare tools is a reminder that heritage alone cannot sustain livelihoods unless the systems that support them evolve.

What struck me during conversations with the weavers was their clarity. They were not seeking charity. They were asking for fair access to better looms, training on contemporary designs, consistent market demand, and opportunities to sell directly. Their ask was not a transformation from the outside, but an enabling ecosystem that amplifies what they already excel at.

Local institutions like cooperatives, women’s self-help groups, producer companies, and artisan clusters play a pivotal role in negotiating prices, ensuring raw material supply, and aggregating products for larger orders. In Kamrup, I saw tremendous potential for women-led collectives that could own the entire value chain, from sourcing raw silk yarn of Eri and Muga to designing contemporary designs to managing logistics with digital tools. A decentralized, community-owned model would allow profits to remain in the village while giving weavers a bargaining voice.

There is also an urgent need to tell the stories behind these weaves. Consumers today increasingly seek authenticity, sustainability, and connection. Assam’s handloom sector embodies all three. Each Mekhela Chador woven on a traditional loom is not just a garment; it is hours of meticulous labour, generations of inherited technique, and the cultural soul of a community. Yet the lack of branding and storytelling often reduces these textiles to mere commodities. If India can celebrate Banarasi silk and Kanchipuram saris globally, there is no reason why Assam’s weaves cannot enjoy similar recognition, with the right investment, visibility campaigns, and market linkages.

Government programs like the National Handloom Development Programme and Deendayal Upadhyaya Grameen Kaushal Yojana have made efforts to support weavers. But ground realities show that the most impactful interventions are those that engage women directly, respect their lived knowledge, and co-create solutions rather than imposing them. Capacity building must happen in their language, in their community spaces, and at timings suitable to their daily responsibilities.

Most importantly, the narrative around rural women must shift. Too often, they are portrayed as vulnerable, needing rescue. The woman in the photograph, and countless others like her, are not symbols of vulnerability, but are symbols of strength. They run households, care for children and the elderly, manage farms, participate in community activities, and still take out time to weave. Their contribution to the rural economy is enormous, even though much of it remains invisible and unpaid.

As I watched the fabric slowly take shape on her loom, I realised that weaving is also an act of hope. Every thread layered over another is a gesture of belief in tomorrow, belief that their craft will survive, that their daughters will inherit both the skill and the opportunity to thrive, and that their labour will be valued fairly. If India is to build a truly inclusive development story, it must begin by recognising and uplifting such women, not through charity, but through partnership.

In the villages of Assam, women are already weaving change. They only need the rest of us to stop standing on the sidelines and start supporting the revolution they have begun.

The Whiteboard Mind

In the age of digital tools, where every idea has a place in an app and every plan sits behind a login screen, the humble whiteboard continues to command its own quiet power. For many thinkers, creators, and problem-solvers, it remains the most dynamic canvas, a space where thoughts breathe, flow, and transform. For someone like me who designs projects, plans strategies, brainstorms ideas, and lead teams, the whiteboard and marker pen are not just tools. They are extensions of the mind,  translating abstract thought into visible structure. It’s not nostalgia or resistance to technology; instead, it’s about harnessing a form of thinking that is visual, kinetic, and alive.

There’s a deep psychological connection between movement and cognition. When you draw or write by hand, especially on a large surface like a whiteboard, you activate a different mode of thinking. The body participates in the act of thought. The hand sketches a relationship, the eye follows it, the brain reinterprets it, and new connections emerge almost instinctively.

Typing or clicking on the keyboard keeps the mind linear, confined to lists, bullets, and boxes. But drawing on a whiteboard invites a non-linear form of exploration. You can start anywhere, a square, an arrow, a phrase, and the rest begins to grow organically. This freedom to expand, erase, and rearrange is what makes it such a powerful thinking process. Each line is a possibility. Every arrow, a hypothesis. And each erasure, a moment of learning. When thoughts become visible, they also become testable. A whiteboard externalises the inner dialogue of the mind. It takes ideas that could remain foggy abstractions and turns them into something you can point at, challenge, and reshape.

This visibility is particularly powerful in complex problem-solving or project design. When working through implementation challenges or building systems with multiple moving parts, you can literally ‘see’ the interactions. Causal diagrams, mind maps, and process flows make dependencies clear and highlight gaps that words alone might obscure. You can stand back and see the whole ecosystem, how resources connect, where bottlenecks might occur, or which variables influence outcomes. The whiteboard gives you that clear view while still allowing you to dive into details when needed. It’s thinking at both the macro and micro levels, which is simultaneously intuitive and analytical.

Every creative or strategic process begins in some form of chaos. Ideas compete, assumptions overlap, and clarity hides behind complexity. The whiteboard is where that chaos finds its first structure. Drawing mind maps is often the first step, not because they provide answers, but because they show relationships. From one central idea, branches grow, each representing a sub-theme, a factor, or an alternative. You can add, cross-link, or reframe them without fear of permanence. The visual form allows you to rearrange logic faster than your words can catch up.

Causal diagrams, in turn, help identify the forces at play of what leads to what, what influences what. In project planning, this is invaluable. You can trace dependencies between actions, timelines, or external conditions. You can see where interventions matter most. You can uncover loops, positive or negative, that either amplify progress or create recurring setbacks. In a sense, the whiteboard becomes a mirror of systems thinking. It holds complexity while keeping it human and accessible.

The whiteboard isn’t just a personal tool; it’s a shared language. I often use it in team meetings or group ideation sessions, as it turns abstract discussion into a collective visualisation. People see not only what is said, but how it connects. Misunderstandings surface faster because assumptions become visible. When everyone’s looking at the same diagram, they’re also looking at the same version of reality and not one filtered through individual interpretation.

It democratizes contribution, leading to one common understanding. A quiet team member can point at a link and ask, ‘Why does this connect here?’ or suggest a missing node. Visual representation invites curiosity and challenges hierarchy. It’s no longer about who talks the most, but about what the group sees together. Moreover, it encourages iteration. Unlike digital slides or documents that feel fixed, a whiteboard remains fluid. You can erase, redraw, and refine as the conversation evolves. Every stroke on the board is an act of co-creation. Even with PowerPoint presentations, I often end up on a whiteboard (if available) to explain concepts, flow, and possible results. It has proven to be an excellent tool for scenario visualisations.

There’s also the element of speed. With a marker in hand, you can think and draw at the pace of your thoughts. There’s no formatting, no tabs to open, no distractions from notifications or interfaces. When you’re solving implementation challenges or breaking down a project into actionable components, this speed matters. You can move from problem to hypothesis to possible solution in seconds. The visual rhythm keeps the momentum alive. And because it’s temporary and erasable, there’s less fear of getting it wrong. You can test a scenario, discard it, and move on. This low-cost experimentation fuels creativity and decision-making alike. In fact, the transient nature of a whiteboard is part of its strength. It reminds you that ideas are living entities to be evolved, not preserved.

When designing projects, a whiteboard allows for holistic structuring. You can begin with purpose at the centre, draw out stakeholders, resources, activities, and outcomes, and gradually watch a project take shape like a constellation. At this stage, aesthetics and functionality merge. The diagram is not just a record; it’s a design prototype. You can visualise workflows, timelines, partnerships, and even behavioural change models. Seeing everything laid out helps identify what’s missing and what’s redundant. For ideation, it’s even more liberating. The blank board is an invitation to explore. You might start sketching something unrelated, only to stumble upon an insight that reframes the entire problem. The act of drawing keeps your attention anchored and your imagination open.

Often, my Millennial and Gen Z associates argue that digital whiteboards and collaboration tools replicate all these benefits, but there’s something irreplaceable about standing in front of a board with a marker. Your posture changes, your mind sharpens. The body’s movement through space, stepping back to observe, leaning in to draw, engages multiple senses. It’s immersive in a way screens can’t replicate. A whiteboard has boundaries, forcing you to prioritise. What fits stays, and what doesn’t must be distilled. This physical constraint often leads to conceptual clarity. Maybe the old school professor in me has a bias!

Using a whiteboard and marker isn’t about rejecting modern tools; it’s about complementing them. Digital systems store and polish. Whiteboards create and provoke. For anyone who works on complex projects, leads teams, or solves multidimensional challenges, the whiteboard offers a cognitive advantage as it makes thinking tangible. It transforms abstract reasoning into something you can walk around, discuss, and reshape. It reminds us that clarity isn’t found inside the mind alone; it’s constructed through visible relationships and shared understanding.

For me, the whiteboard is more than a surface; it’s been my live, on-the-spot thinking companion. Every mark carries curiosity; every erasure, humility. It captures not just what we know, but how we learn. To think with a whiteboard is to think in motion. It’s a dialogue between mind, hand, and idea. It’s where chaos meets order, and where clarity emerges, not from control, but from exploration. In a world of digital efficiency, perhaps the most human form of innovation still begins with a marker, a blank board, and the courage to draw what we don’t yet fully understand.